my husbands captain wrote in a newsletter that he hadnt been getting mail?
Written by admin on January 18th, 2009
i have sent him mail every month he has been overseas i have medical prob its hard for me to get out bc of fugtige my hubby tells me when he needs something and i get it should i send more stuff more often or let it go it really upset me because i am sending him stuff please help
January 19th, 2009 at 3:47 pm
I would write a real Nasty letter to his Capt…
Telling him to mind his own business,,,
and cc to his Commanding General…
He has No Right to say anything about your
Husband and his mail…he should not be a Capt…
(Just because he is a Capt doesn’t make him
the brightest bulb in the pack..)
Don’t you worry about anything..
Just keep doing what your doing…
Thank You & Your Husband Your Service !!!!
January 19th, 2009 at 7:27 pm
Are you sure he’s getting it? Is it possible you wrote the address down wrong? If not, then I would ask your husband if he would like more mail or if the amount you’ve been sending is sufficient. If he’s not complaining, then his Captain needs to mind his own business and let the issue between you and your husband remain private.
January 20th, 2009 at 6:23 pm
You need to verify that your husband is getting the mail you are sending.
You also need to address the inappropriate writings of the Capt in a newsletter. Such comments do not belong in a generic newsletter going out to many family members.
As for your husband getting mail you can do what I do when my spouse is deployed. He understands that with, work , children , school(children and myself) things are crazy at home. I usually go and buy about 10-15 cards at once. I pre-address and stamp the envelopes. I also try to always have one in my purse. This means I’m always ready to jot a few lines when I have a chance or on the spur of the moment when something special happens or I’m just missing him. I mail a card at least once a week. This keeps mail in the system so something arrives each week. I also recruit friends and family to send cards and mail to keep his moral up. Don’t feel bad because some Capt is thoughtless. You are doing what you can. As long your spouse is good with what you are doing and you are as well that is all that matters.
Married to Air Force Spouse
Retired Air Force
January 22nd, 2009 at 9:15 pm
lol id be mad..i have never heard of such crap…send him a letter everyday of the week..